Mothers, daughters and sexual agency in one low-income South African community

Statistics indicate that sexual health problems like HIV/AIDS and teenage pregnancies are prevalent among young South African low-income women. To improve the effectiveness of preventative programmes for adolescents it is important to focus on adolescents’ own understanding and experience of their sexual behaviour within the contexts in which it occurs. Female adolescents’ experiences of their own sexuality are shaped by a range of contexts: from the very specific context of their intimate relationships to the broader contexts of gender, ethnicity and social class. It is therefore imperative to adopt a research approach that stratifies groups and develops interventions that are based on the needs, interests, sexual beliefs and behaviours of specific communities rather than developing general educational messages. The current paper is part of a larger study exploring female adolescent sexuality in a South African low-income rural coloured1 community. Twenty-five adolescent coloured women aged 14–18 years were interviewed about how they viewed their sexuality. The grounded theory analysis indicated that the participants demonstrated a limited sense of sexual agency in these constructions of their sexuality. The mothers of these young women were powerful agents in the young womens’ constructions of their own sexuality and they unintentionally contributed to their daughters’ limited sense of sexual agency. Mothers presented sex as a dangerous activity to their daughters. This discourse of sex as danger contributed towards a mutual understanding that sex should not be talked about. Daughters’ deception of their mothers about their sexual activity maintained mother–daughter connections, but left them without an interactional space where they could talk freely to their mothers about sexuality.