بررسي عوامل استحكام بخش و بهبود دهنده روابط زناشويي از دو منظر ديني و روانشناسي

Abstract Because of the families which have healthy function, beside their survival, would cause the blossoming of potential ability of its members to come up with confidence in seeking the exploration and self-discovery and it will be an effective factor in improving the health and perfection of society, and also concerning percentage of divorcing which will lead to the decline and stagnation communities.therfore this research aims to create consistency and restoration of couple’s relationships, chive the healthy and stable function in family ,create a healthy, strong and growing society, god friendly evolution, and finally achieving the real happiness and overall attractions of humanty,seeking to provide useful and productive guidance by using the teachings of divine sciences and modern psychology to the less experienced couples or couples without any solution in their relationships. This study is done by referring to the valuable, original religious books and derived from God’s eternal knowledge and religious leaders and psychologists scientific theories with the historical descriptive approach and based on the content. Research questions: what criteria of success in marriage should be respected? To have a healthy, reputable and growing family, what implications and rules should be applied? What duties and obligations of man and woman are in this regard? What effective measures are there to repair the damaged relationships? The results of this study indicate systematic training, though short, but very accurate, insightful, comprehensive and global generalization, that if they become practical carefully and willingly they will have useful and comprehensive impacts through sublimation and felicity of family. These principles include: communication and loyalty, forgiveness,atienceinadversity,simplicity,moderation,cleanlinessand adornment, good mood, making love,chastity,purity and maintaining relatives, generosity, to give honour.it also became clear that some of divine principles, have similar and clear meaning with the concept of psychology, such as the principles of maintaining relatives, that had equal concept with the concept of “healing nature of family” in the psychology family to improve relations.presentation and to compare of Some points of views about family therapy from the perspective of religious and psychology are provided.