Phenomenology of love: The Destructive and Constructive Nature of Love

Love, this eminent humane experience, has been explored not only by writers and poets, but also by philosophers, psychologists and even experimental scientists. This paper aims to discuss a novel aspect in phenomenology of love, as the concept of destructive and constructive nature of love, which is to the best of our knowledge, presented for the first time. The fundamental idea of this paper was obtained from verses of Hafiz, then polished by theories of Robert Cloninger and several other thinkers in the field of human emotions. Many verses of Hafiz display love experience as a necessary step towards growth, in a way that could be evinced further by the development of the selfaware psych introduced by Cloninger. He introduces the selfaware psych as one of the three constituting domains of human mind and personality, the intuitive essence bringing integrity for personality. If selfaware psych flourishes by favorable growth and development, it would prepare the ground for creativity, wisdom and wellbeing, otherwise, personality disorders would be contingent. The destructive and constructive nature of love, towards development of selfawareness and mental growth, is further determined by reexplaining the proposed theory of ego as a complex by Carl Jung, the theory of network of intentionality by John Searle, and the theory of emotional processing by Edna Foa and Michael Kozak in this context.