مقايسه كنترل هيجان و احساسات با سطوح بالا و پايين عشق در دانشجويان

Comparative of Gain Control of Emotion and Feelings with High and Low Levels of Love

عاشق شدن باعث مي شود كه فرد تغييرات جسمي و رواني را تجربه كند و اين تجربيات، كنترل هيجان و احساسات و شكيبايي فرد را متاًثر مي كند. به منظور بررسي اثر سطوح بالا و پايين عشق بر كنترل هيجان و احساسات و شكيبايي و با استفاده از روش تحقيق توصيفي-تحليلي، تعداد 384 نفر از دانشجويان دانشگاه شهيد باهنر كرمان به روش نمونه گيري تصادفي-طبقه اي، انتخاب شدند. براي اندازه گيري سطوح بالا و پايين عشق از پرسشنامه مقياس عشق ايوانز (1980) و براي اندازه گيري شكيبايي و كنترل هيجان و احساسات از پرسشنامه شكيبايي و تشخيص هيجان و احساسات ايوانز (1980) استفاده شد. نتايج تجزيه و تحليليك طرفه واريانس نشان داد كه سطوح بالا و پايين عشق بر كنترل هيجان و احساسات اثر دارد (0001/0 > P) كه با افزايش عشق، كنترل هيجان و احساسات كاهش مييابد ولي سطوح بالا و پايين عشق بر شكيبايي اثر معني داري نداشت. از آنجايي كه عاشق در معرض هيجان و احساسات شديد و متضاد كه گاهي مثبت و منفي هستند قرار مي گيرد، توانايي او در كنترل هيجان و احساسات برخواسته از عشق كاهش مييابد كه مي تواند بيانگر جنبه منفي عشق باشد كه نياز به مديريت هيجان و احساسات دارد ولي شكيبايي او بدليل حفظ رابطه عاشقانه نشانگر جنبه مثبت و منفي عشق است

Falling in love causes that lover experiences some physical and psychological changes. These changes can impress the lover’s ability to manage and control his or her patient, emotion and feelings. The aim of the present study is to investigate the impact of the high and low levels of love on patient and gain control to emotion and feelings. In this descriptive-analytic method, 384 students of Shahid Bahonar University of Kerman were selected by stratified- random sampling method and the Questionnaire of love, patient and Emotion and Feelings State Questionnaire by Evans (1980) were employed to measure high and low levels of love, patient and Emotion and Feelings State Questionnaire respectively. One-way ANOVA was employed to find out the impact of high and low levels of love on patient, emotion and feelings. Results revealed that there was a significant impact (p < 0/0001) on levels of love with gain control of emotion and feelings and as the love levels increased, gain control of emotion and feelings decreased significantly. Results also suggested that there was not significant impact on levels of love with patient. Lover is prone to experience some positive and negative felling, conflict and ambivalence about love and relationships. Feeling resulting of love lead to lover loses his or her ability to control and manage his or her emotions and it is negative aspect of love. Lover for keeping love relationship had to be patient and it is a positive and negative aspect of love.